Embracing Positive Change: Why Changing Your Perspective Is a Good Thing (And How to Actually Do It)

Change is a word that can feel exciting… or it can spark fear.

Most of us crave the idea of having more of a positive attitude, a new fresh start, or becoming a better version of ourselves—but when it comes down to actually doing it? That’s where the challenge lies.

Most people say they are positive but don't actually do or apply what they know.

But here’s the truth: changing ourselves is not only possible, it’s necessary.

And often, it’s exactly what your soul has been quietly whispering to you all along.

Why Change Is a Good Thing

Growth Doesn’t Happen in Comfort Zones
Change forces us to stretch, to learn, and to see things from a new angle. It can be uncomfortable, sure—but it’s also where transformation lives.
Staying the Same Is a Choice Too
Sometimes we forget that not changing is still a decision. And if life feels stagnant, unfulfilling, or dull, that choice might be keeping us stuck in patterns that no longer serve us.
You Deserve to Evolve
You’re not the same person you were five years ago. Or even last year. You are allowed to reinvent yourself, redefine your values, and pursue something entirely new.
That’s not selfish —that’s human.

How to Actually Change Your Mindset (in your own time)

Let’s be real: changing your attitude and perspective to the positive doesn’t have to mean it will be hard, It can be gradual, subtle, intentional, and powerful.

1. Start with Self-Awareness

Ask yourself:

What’s no longer working?
What drains my energy?
What brings me joy or peace? This is your foundation. Real change begins with understanding where you are and where you want to be.

2. Pick One Area to Focus On

Choose one area of your life—health, career, relationships, mindset—and focus your energy there.

3. Create Tiny Shifts

You don’t need to flip your world upside-down. Start small:

10 minutes of journaling a day
Reaching out to one new person a week

4. Surround Yourself with Support

Change is hard to sustain alone. Whether it’s a friend, a mentor, a course, or even a community online, find people who reflect where you want to go—not just where you’ve been.

Final Thoughts

Changing yourselves doesn’t mean you were doing it wrong before. It just means you’re brave enough to attract more Positivity—from yourself and from the world.

You don’t need to wait for permission. You don’t need to have all the answers. You just need the courage to take that first, imperfect step.

Your new life and positive attitude isn’t waiting for “someday.”

It’s waiting for you.

Have a look at one of my many YouTube Video shorts on CHANGE here

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/R8hdvmhqBJA

And, I don't usually blow my own trumpet but I wanted to showcase that last month I had the pleasure of receiving a beautiful testimonial from someone I had been working with lately,

I was thrilled!!!

Jay's testimonial

"I can’t say enough about how amazing Kim is as a mentor and coach! Her passion for helping others grow is truly unmatched, and her energy is nothing short of inspiring.

I’ve had the pleasure of connecting with Kim through a few Zoom calls, and every single one has left me feeling more confident, motivated, and ready to take action. She’s helped me push past so much self-doubt and step into a version of myself I didn’t think was possible.

What truly sets her apart are her incredible courses. They’re packed with value, actionable steps, and encouragement to help you succeed. I highly recommend them to anyone looking to grow personally or professionally—you’ll gain so much insight and confidence!

Thank you, Kim, for being such a positive light and for helping me believe in myself!"

Jay

YAY!!! thank you Jay XX

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Stay positive and on the light side beautiful soul.

Love Kim xxx

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