Overcoming Self Doubt and Fear So They Stop Killing Your Dreams.

Have you ever doubted yourself and your capabilities? Have you ever questioned yourself too much and over analysed any future achievements or desires with a negative attitude?

Have you ever felt a lack of confidence in yourself? And this has stopped you doing what you really want to do and left you wondering how to overcome the self doubt and fear that’s holding you back?

We all do this and I’m no exception. 

I was the Queen of this for years, and years. I didn’t dare to think that I was good enough to achieve anything I wanted to do and this was mainly because of fear.

I had not done “That Thing" I wanted to do.

So what right have I got to start now?

Fear was stopping me from following my dreams.

But what I should have been asking myself is what right have I got not to?

I feared people. I feared the world. I feared what others would say. I feared that others would

judge me or make fun of me or that I didn’t have the right qualifications or know how to succeed.

I feared that there were others in the world who were better at doing what I wanted to do.

This is so true in some cases but so what!! At least I would have tried.

Because we don’t know unless we try, do we?

For too long, I put others' opinions before mine, which really means that I didn’t love or respect myself. I had to learn how to stop fearing other people’s opinions.

Now that I have a much greater understanding of where this came from and what causes self doubt.

You are an amazing creative genius with special gifts to share with the world and you may not even know what those are yet. Some may never find out unless they do the inner work. 

But it’s inside of you and it’s up to you if you want to find it.

I wanted to find it because several years ago I had lost everything and things couldn’t have got any worse in the abyss that I felt I had sunken down to.

I had to become the captain of my ship to build the life I wanted. 

I was longing for change. Longing for something new. And it happened, slowly but surely as I was adamant and determined.

Fear was the main factor that had to be conquered. Then the habits, then the self love, I took a good long hard look at my thinking, habits and attitude. It all had to go and I learned so much.

I applied the important tools, worked on myself on a daily basis and learned what it takes to stop fear from holding you back. And through all of this work, I discovered what it really means to believe in yourself again. 

When you change your attitude and perspective of the world, your world changes too. 

Positivity was the number one main focus as we all know that what you are focusing on comes into your world. It's quantum science and one of the Laws of the Universe.

My world did change and so did the people in it. The universe brings you what you can handle at the time. I don’t believe you will ever be given a massive scary task that you asked for if you are not yet ready to do it. 

Believing this helped me with fear. It takes baby steps but when I look back at my life and wrote about it in my book, this is what seemed to happen.

So know what you want and take the baby steps. It’s a learning journey we are on; I believe that this is why we are here -  to learn, grow and enjoy the process.

Fear is simply a product of the thoughts we have. 

If you think about the scene and see it going wrong in your mind, it may well go wrong in reality. 

We have to switch the pictures in our head to see it going well and get on the path to success.

Fear and self-doubt stops us from achieving what we want and holds us back.

But learn to overcome the fears and take the baby steps. You will thank yourself and feel proud, I promise you! 

Wishing you all the very best and remember to stay positive.

Go forth and be brave, my friend.

Love and light xx

Kim xx

Author, Positive Speaker, Mentor, Artist, Light worker x

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